So I am a very big believer that relationship go through a dramatic change once we lose the weight. This time around, I get into my own personal life & explain what I had to go through as im sure others are facing as well.
All I ever wanted was to be touched more, to be admired, to be loved, to have that wow factor… Maybe a few you look so beautiful, you look so sexy, or just a slight stare in disbelief that im his wife. If I had those types of reactions outdoors, why could I not get it at home. This is what made the marriage go for a loop. I felt unwanted and when I needed the most attention because of my big accomplishment, I did not get it.
After seeking marriage counciling and pouring my heart out, things have change and he now has those qualities that I was looking for. It took almost a year to change his way of being.
Some relationships get stronger while others fall apart. The choice lies btwn how much 2 people love each other.
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